Tried and True Advice from Ashleymadison.com’s 11.4 Million Members
NEW YORK, NY – Marital infidelity is on the rise. While people stray for different reasons – emotional, sexual or simply because an opportunity presents itself – the fact is men and woman are increasingly looking to satisfy themselves outside the bonds of marriage and none of them want to get caught.
Based upon feedback from Ashleymadison.com’s 11.4 million members worldwide, the following are their top 10 tips to ensure your perfect affair stays 100% discreet:
1. Don’t waste time
The longer you think about planning the act of an affair, the more time your partner has to grow suspicious. There’s nothing to suspect if you dive right in and get out quickly.
2. Keep it under cover
It’s always smarter to pick places your partner avoids when meeting your date – the last thing you want is them bumping into you when you’re making plans with the inside of your lover’s mouth. It’s wise to steer clear of high-risk public places, even if you enjoy the thrill of possibly getting caught.
3. Have a good alibi
If you’re going to keep your cool in every potential situation, you’re going to have to make sure you’ve got your excuses in check – and that means every last detail. “I’m going out and will be back in an hour,” isn’t going to cut the extramarital mustard.
4. Be careful online
We all love social networking to keep up with (read: stalk) our friends – but when it comes to lovers, keep them out. A secondary e-mail account for all saucy missives will work wonders for your privacy whilst adding some texty spice to the relationship.
5. Don’t go looking in your own back yard
Sure, your partner’s friend from work may be cute and has totally been checking you out, but that’s no reason to go digging up that bone. Avoid all their friends as well as your neighbors and colleagues. Don’t get yourself into any situation that could give away your dirty little secret.
6. Proceed without a digital trace
Perfume and lipstick on your shirt are things of the past. In the digital age, you need to worry about your partner catching you stepping out through your e-mails, texts, online chat history and social networks. The solution? Use tools like Ashleymadison.com that erase the digital trail from your computer with the touch of our proprietary Panic Button.
7. Track your expenses
We all love to splurge out on our loved ones but be cautious – don’t use your credit card during any romantic rendezvous with your lover or else run the risk of your partner questioning the $200 you spent on two lobster meals. Ashleymadison.com uses discreet billing to keep your spouse in the dark.
8. Set yourself boundaries
Ensure you’re playing the game by your own rules. You need to establish limits early on in order to avoid unexpected calls or visits which could prove disastrous for your marriage.
9. Every Jack his has Jill
Make sure your lover wants the same out of the relationship. Don’t waste your time on dating websites because, let’s face it, they’re not the ideal for your situation. Websites specifically created with affairs in mind will ensure you find someone on the same wavelength.
10. Use your common sense
This one goes without saying but don’t get too caught up in the excitement and romance. You need to find a trustworthy person who understands the nature of the affair and always practice safe sex. Take your time finding that perfect partner.
About Ashleymadison.com
Now boasting over 11.3 million members worldwide, Ashleymadison.com is the world’s premier affair service. Founded by Noel Biderman on Feb. 14, 2002, Ashleymadison.com is the world’s leading infidelity dating site. Biderman has become known as the “King of infidelity” and referred to as “The most hated man on the Internet,” but with record-breaking growth in 16 countries, Ashleymadison.com has quickly become one of the fastest growing social networks on the web.
